It's been my experience that this question catches a lot of business owners completely off guard. It's an easy-to-overlook aspect of the preparation for an eventual sale, because the financial preparation gets almost all of the attention. The personal side usually gets less than planning your next vacation.
Selling Your Business Does Not Mean Stopping
The word "retire" means to stop. That's not something most people want to plan for. It's really something to avoid.
There have been countless people who retire from jobs that had defined them, only to find they pass away a year or two afterward, because they didn't fill the void left by their work ... their identity.
Your focus needs to be on where you are going, what you'll be doing, and with whom.
Business owners who go into negotiations with a clear plan for their lives after the sale closes are much happier in the years that follow the close.
(Source: Exit Planning Institute, 2023 State of Owner Readiness Report)
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Let's get to the heart of this chapter, and that is this big question:
"What will your life look like after the business is no longer your daily focus?"
There's a whole lot more to consider than just the sale price, like enjoying your life after the transaction is completed.
Lee Iacocca, the former Chairman of Chrysler, wrote a book on how he failed retirement. There was a man with the financial means to live a fabulous lifestyle, yet he felt empty. He left something instead of going to something.
Who Are You?
When you are introduced at a dinner party, you say what you do. For most business owners, what they do and who they say they are is usually the same answer.
The business isn't just a source of income. It's who you are.
If the business has been your identity, the last thing you'd ever want is to end up miserable after you step away from it.
You need to find things that you can't wait to do, things that will pull you into the next phase of your life. Otherwise, you're not going to be happy.
It's really important that you give this some deep thought over a period of weeks and even months. You don't want to make any plans or investment decisions without knowing the purpose for all of it.
Consistent Uncertainty
Over the years, when I ask attendees at seminars why they were there, many of them said half-joking, "How am I ever going to be able to retire?!?"
It wasn't that they hadn't built up some nice savings. The issue was that they had spent their working years focused on their work and busy lives.
They simply didn't know how to tie their finances and goals together into a nice little package.
You need to be mentally ready with a game plan that fits you and your spouse or significant other as well.
You've probably spent 20 to 30 years or more building your business. Walking away from that is a lot more than a transaction. Be sure to give the next phase the thought it deserves.
Client Relationships
For many business owners, their longest and most meaningful professional relationships are with their clients.
These are people you have worked with through expansions and contractions, through their unique challenges as well as your own, sometimes across generations of your families.
You know their business almost as well as they do, maybe even better. They trust you in a way that took years to earn, and you would hate to lose that.
The idea of handing those relationships to a new owner, or finding out they were captured by your biggest rival, would be extremely painful. That's why many owners won't turn over the command of the ship.
What ends up happening is they set up their clients and employees with the very problem they had hoped to avoid by staying on too long.
That could be another good reason to start planning now, so the eventual transfer protects all of the relationships and lives affected by the decision.
Your Employees
For owners who have long-standing employees, the idea of a handoff can be emotionally challenging.
These are people who trusted you with their livelihoods, who built their careers inside your business. They rely on their jobs with you to provide a dignified lifestyle for themselves and their families.
This may seem like the biggest obligation to you ... as much as any other responsibility.
Taking the time to develop a well-structured transfer plan helps to protect them.
That is another reason why the planning needs to start long before a buyer appears at the door.
Your Spouse and Family
You may have an idea of what your life after the business looks like. Maybe some golf or a new hobby. Start a new venture with one of your children, perhaps.
Spouses, especially the ones who managed the home front all the while, often have much different ideas of what the next phase looks like.
It's important for you to get on the same page together, and the sooner the better, preferably long before a transaction is a remote consideration. It is one of the most valuable things you can do for your marriage and your post-sale happiness.
One thing I can tell you from having facilitated a great many of these conversations is that you will walk out with the firm belief that you have really crystallized your goals. And, you may learn a new thing or two about each other.
Lifestyle Worksheet
The same way you have a why for your business, you need to find it for the next phase of your life. It is not merely the end of something. It is a new beginning, one with endless possibilities.
I developed a Lifestyle Worksheet that can help you think it through. Request a free copy by clicking the button below.